Proverbs 22:6 says, train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.
We as parents have a big responsibility in training and disciplining our own kids. Train and discipline them in order for them to have the necessary tools when facing the real world. Grit, persistence, stamina, consistency, perseverance - these are just a few of the tools that I am talking about. If your child does not want to abide to the things you'd like him to do, it is your fault!
Listen, people tell me all the time, "Big A, I do not know what to do with my kids, I can't make them off from the video games. I cannot make them do a task" and so and so forth. All I got to say to them is - It's your fault!